Can being positive really help?
I would say certainly, I know for certain that others agree with me.
But how can being positive help and why would I want to try? How? Do I have to be feeling positive all day and every day?
We are humans, we experience real life and real life issues, problems, ups and downs and plenty of negativity in our own lives, the lives in the people around us, the media and so on.
But can being positive really help? The simple answer is yes.
Yes it does help to be positive. Being positive in your own mind and with your own feelings should really make you feel better, to feel happier.
Do you want to go through life always dwelling on the negative? Do you want to spend your days in a bad mood? How many people do you know that are angry at so much around them? Are any of these feelings resonating with you? Are you living your life from a place of fear, worry and anxiety?
You really do have a choice, it’s a mindset choice and to choose feeling and thinking more positively really can impact you and how you live your life daily.
However, we can’t go through life without any negativity whatsoever. If we didn’t experience negative thoughts, feelings and situations then we wouldn’t experience the contrast of life. By experiencing life’s contrasts, by having the good and the bad we get to choose what we want in our lives. Out of the bad, out of the negative situations, this is what inspires us to ask for something better, and something better to reach for.
It’s about acknowledging the bad, the negative and fear, the anxiety, and the worry but how long you dwell on this should be minimal, accept a bad day, a bad attitude, a bad situation and move on.
Don’t bury bad feelings but smooth them out to a better feeling place.
Always reach for a better feeling place.
My favourite thought of late is:
if you are in a dark tunnel, do you focus on the darkness or do you smooth out your feelings and focus on the light at the end of the tunnel?
Abraham Hicks said, “you can be, do or have anything you want”.
Law of Attraction, the universe, God or whoever you choose your belief to be in (here we will say the universe):
The universe will always answer YES, a bit like the genie in the lamp, your wish is my command.
Whatever feeling and thought you put out there be it spoken outloud or in your own mind, the universe will always answer yes.
If you say ‘but I don’t have enough money’, the universe will say ‘YES’ and you will have not enough money.
If you say ‘but I don’t have enough time’, the universe will say ‘YES’ and you will not have enough time.
If you say ‘but I’m always sickly and in ill health’, then, the universe will say ‘YES’ and you will be sickly and in ill health.
If you say ‘but I always attract the relationship that doesn’t work out or I’m treated badly’, guess what, the universe will say ‘YES’ and continue to bring those things to you.
Change your thoughts, change your feelings.
If you say, I’m grateful for all the money I have, money comes easily and frequently to me, then the universe will say ‘YES’ and, you will have enough money, you will have money come to you frequently and easily.
Don’t quit when the going gets tough. Everyone has problems, it’s how we deal with them that matters.
For every problem, there is a solution. Focusing on the problem will bring more problems or make the problem bigger, being grateful for the solution, know and trust that there is a solution, don’t just speak the words, feel them, believe them and the solution will come.